I guess I gotta keep trying to get laid

This is the men saga going on right now. Not much honestly. I starting talking to one guy last night. It lasted a couple hours before I got bored with his lack of enthusiasm and dismissed him entirely.

I realize with men I either come on strong or show almost no interest. There isn’t much of a middle ground for me. Which I’m sure makes it much more difficult. Men are more accommodating and enthusiastic in person than over text. All nuance is lost. It just feels almost impossible to flirt with a stranger via text. It doesn’t translate well.

Then add on all the quasi uncomfortable conversations you have to have before you even decide if you want to actually meet this person IRL.

Because dating wasn’t difficult enough already. I feel like I’m a smoker who has to only date other smokers. 😤😒

This is a super cute trans man* I’ve been talking to, who’s easy and fun. He’s the first person I’ve genuinely tried to be friends with. Not to say I’m not open to more. But we haven’t met IRL yet and he seems much more into men.

That’s it. I’ve got nothing else going on but lots of work and chores and errands.

Adulting: all the boring crap you have to do to get to have fun once in a while. When you can remember what fun is, can think of something to do that might actually be fun and can find the energy to go out and do it.

Gotta go.


*Clarification: she is a (male born) non-binary or genderqueer, pansexual and demi-sexual. Now say that three times fast. 😉

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

10 thoughts on “I guess I gotta keep trying to get laid”

      1. OK and sometimes well Got the second dose of the Pfizer COVID-19 vaccine. The only thing in the world of COVID-19 worse than the second shot is the disease itself.
        Seriously I’m doing good. Hope your life is less full of crap real soon

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  1. Sorry your sex life sucks. So does mine . Whaddya say we meet halfway between us in say Ft Madison Iowa? I’ll work at a 7-Eleven and you can sell sex toys and Lingerie at home parties to uptight middle-age Midwestern women. It would be fun, until the kids wanted to eat.

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