Right? That’s what the secret teaches. That’s what visualization is about. That’s why manifestation boards are so popular. Because you plant the seed and give it energy to grow.
Do I believe this is all true, possible and real? Yes and no. I believe that destiny is destiny and sometimes no matter what your intentions life will do as life wants to do. But I also think that the more you work towards a goal and the better you have the idea in your head the more the chances are of you getting it.
Isn’t that why they say that you stand a better chance of building a successful business if you create a business plan first? This isn’t always the case but the statistics are so in its favor that not writing one is almost sacrilegious.
So I’ve been working on this new list of what I am seeking in a man. Now at no point do I list handsome or funny or rich.
The Perfect Partner
Able to be vulnerable
Devoted to me and “us”
Treats me like a queen in public
Fucks me and I fuck them in all kinds of ways in private
All in all a person of real depth.
This also says nothing about hobbies or politics or nationality or even gender, sexual identity or kinks. Because most of those things I don’t think really matter to me.
Will I ever find this love? Don’t know. That’s not even my concern when doing this endeavor. All I’m doing here is throwing it out there, into the eternal knowing; sharing my desires and seeing if it’s maybe out there for me.
This is also a fun little thing to make it clear to myself. Set my own priorities in order. Not just in a vague sense but in a clear, consice way.
And even if these dreams don’t come true. It’s still nice to believe they can.