Jeezus. I knew it would be drama. I just never anticipated how much.
Turns out my mom’s boyfriend doesn’t want anything to do with me. He said for me to hand him the death certificate and he will take care of all her accounts and personal affects and 401k and let me know.
This man has ample properties and money. Why the heck is he trying to take over like this? There are some other sketchy things he said but basically he gave me the heave-ho.
So I guess I’m calling a lawyer tomorrow. Joy! Just what I wanted to have to do. He kept prattling on about his mother and how my mother handled her banking account. I told him several times I had no intention or interest in taking her money. He would not budge.
When I asked for the ring my mother hadn’t taken off in over 40 years. He acted like I was crazy. Said he has no idea what happened to it. I’m like dude. I just saw it when I talked to her last week. She never took it off. You know what I’m talking about. Nope. No idea, he said.
I’m like, seriously?
It is nice being back in California though. It always feels like home no matter how long I’m away. I miss it, but not enough to move back.
And….and….my loan modification agent assigned to help me with the paperwork screwed me over big time. I had until today to turn in paperwork. When I talked to her last week she sent me a form with a few things she needed. I sent them. Then today she sends a new form with new paperwork.
I’m like “you do get I’m in California (as I told you I’d be Friday) and there’s no way, even if I was in Oregon, I can turn around paperwork in just a few hours”. Especially when she needs an item from my father in Mexico. This woman has worked with me for over a year. This is our third go around.
She screwed me royally and I am having a hard time believing it isn’t purposeful. Give someone a little power to be able to screw people over and watch them use it.
I’m so fucking frustrated.
The only positive is that I’m going to see an ex-boyfriend tomorrow. I think he is going to stay with me while I’m here. Not sure if we will have sex but I’m guessing maybe. Although last time we tried, a few years ago when I visited, it was pretty abysmal. But I know he’s been abstinent for a very long time.
It will be nice having the company and a shoulder to cry on although he isn’t the most supportive and emotional person in the world. But I’ll take what I can get right now.
For fucks sake. Just why? Why all these problems? I just want to scream. But I got some takeout. Am nestled in my Airbnb and I’m gonna take a hot shower and toke some California THC. I definitely need it tonight.
Praying for a better tomorrow.