I don’t know why the psychologist would say that I like people to be vulnerable to me.
She’s both right and wrong. I think 1) that’s a hurtful things to say, especially because it isn’t true. 2) it isn’t true.
Pedophiles do behave in that manner. They seek out vulnerable victims.
But I am not trying to impose anything on anyone.
I don’t consider myself to be in any kind of “power” position in life. Those just aren’t the terms I choose to live by.
(And no we aren’t talking about my sexual inclination for femdom or any other sexuality or sexual behavior between adults playing.)
But here is where she is right. I am a marshmallow inside. I want to be vulnerable with people. But yes, I like to see it offered first, sometimes. That’s all. If that makes me some kind of horrible person I really can’t see it. I know my heart is in the right place.
Maybe I should look for a different specialist…. 🙄🙄🙄