The tot has been going on and on about how excited she is for her Elf on a Shelf this year. I can’t explain why, but I’ll chop it up to childhood innocence and frivolity. Suppose it’s something to mark the time, something to look forward to every day, finding Buddy.
Our space is really tiny though, so we will all have to be extra creative this year. Generally I leave it up to the two older kidlets to move him around every night. They are very responsible and seem to get quite the kick out of it some nights.
We usually try to buy our tree this Thanksgiving weekend but I’m not sure where to go. We need a small tree this year, probably a table top tree would make the most sense, so maybe 4 feet tops. A far cry from the ceiling hitting trees we have gotten the last few years.
I’m not sure what to do about Christmas in general, this year. Right now it all hinges on my father, and if he sends money like he usually does. I’m in full save mode; except for food. And the girls need very little, maybe a new video game, some new clothes for the season and their growth spurts and a few new board games we could all enjoy.
But they are used to Santa bringing each one a special gift and I’m not sure that will be possible this year, unless my dad sends money. At this point I’d be really happy with one nice gift for each and a few small necessities. But it definitely won’t be like in years past.
For one their father used to pay half of Santa’s gift and then I had Brad buying more gifts than they ever could want or use, filling the tree with an absurd amount of gifts really. Neither of those are true this year, which is fine.
I’m not complaining. I’m just trying to figure out how to spin this into a good thing. This is the year of making due and sacrifices. Which is fine, but it’s not very Christmassy sounding.
I can’t waiver though.
I have to make plans for the worst case scenario…..and that’s having to move next year.
And if I have to move my colonic equipment interstate it’s going to be an expensive endeavor. Still better and cheaper than replacing it, but ugghhhhhh.
Well. That’s not a thought for today.
Maybe we’ll find a you cut tree farm nearby for this weekend. A 4′ tree can’t be that expensive. Right? π€
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hmm i never had to hide the Elf. i hope and pray that your Dad comes thru for you all.
Peace n Love
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I called him today. His sister and brother in law dies 2 weeks apart form each other. Her of pneumonia and him of Covid-19. I just wanted to see how he was doing and he mentioned he was sending money. So thankful β£οΈ
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Love it when Dads come thru even during rough times for Him
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I feel very fortunate. He may have been MIA during most of my youth and never helped my mom with alimony or most anything else, but he had different priorities at the time. Age has softened him a lot and he is a better man than he used to be.
Still not winning any awards or anything but I appreciate him.
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You’re a very suspicious person, you know that?
Also try using paragraphs. Helps with readability.
I hope the body is done drying!
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Suspicious?
What body?
Paragraphs? I did use paragraphs.
Did you wake up cranky today? π€
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Are there no paragraphs when you see this? I’m wondering if the formatting is different because I’m using the original format and not the new one they rolled out
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itis formatted for me
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Thanks sindee for clarifying.π
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