I love fall, but I tend to feel lonelier during the holidays when I’m single.
I get that people are not dating much right now. And I also get that a lot of people that date aren’t actually looking for something real. They themselves aren’t necessarily ready to be vulnerable, transparent and truly put themselves out there.
I wonder statistically if the chances are better or worse to date now? The pool is smaller, but that in and of itself isn’t necessarily a bad thing. But I’m not looking for a part time job. Which is what online dating feels like with all the swipes and tags and messaging.
So I thought “wouldn’t it be cool to hang out with people that I could just enjoy pot with?”.
I can go to a bar and drink to my heart’s content and then get in my car and endanger as many lives as my alcoholic blood content can manage. But I can’t go anywhere to relax with some THC. It’s beyond hypocrisy and absolutely ludicrous. But whatever.
What if I create a meet-up that is basically just a way to toke with others. The big question being, what’s the theme? Does there need to be a theme? What could the theme be? Philosophy? Meditation? Movies?
If I created a once a week meeting that possibly rotated to different members houses to host……and had a running theme and of course pot, wouldn’t that be fun?
God I could use some fun. Actually I could use lots of fun. Fun and spontaneity is sorely missing right now in life.
But there has to be a cohesive and fun theme.
This would be something to look forward to. It’s also letting people in, which I want and need to do.
I see it as a win/win, if we don’t take into account the raging pandemic.
Of course, like all things, the details are important. Right? So what are those details? Hmmmmmπ€π€π€
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indeed this virus stuff is killing alot of fun and get togethers. many years ago a Mistress and myself hosted a get together just to dress up for crossdressers at a BDSM club that was normally closed midweek. back when pot was still illegal in the city but we hung out and smoked and enjoyed each others company. i have messaged a few online for dating just coffee and a meet but all responses are no due to virus. so if it weren’t for living with my daughter and fam i would be lonely. s i emphasize with you a great deal. We need fun in our lives. and a place for our pot friends to hang.
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Agreed
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I still need to think about it. Do the risks outweigh the benefits?
I’ve had this thing already. But….. can I get it again? Can I still be a carrier even if I am immune? Lots of questions, not a lot of good answers.
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You might be immune to covid 19 but the virus mutates and could come back worse. just be careful
Peace N Love
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Yea. I’m undecided right now, leaning towards waiting. Not worth the risk.
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Imagine how my single male friends feel…
(Pain management and pot possession is still a nut punching offense according to our state grandstanders).(My single buddy from the Midwest also mentioned that he couldnt get anyone out to at least a coffee or drink stop).
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Yikes. Yea. Dating already wasn’t super great but now….
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And I can’t imatgine pot not being legal. I will NEVER move somewhere it isn’t legal.
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