Remember that song? Who ever thought Japanese weren’t freaky horn dogs in the first place? 🤷🏽♀️
No but really.
I remember when I first joined Tinder a few years ago and I felt the need to inform people I was highly sexual. That was because I wanted to make sure I was going to end up with someone that could keep up, as I have always been hypersexual. And the drought I had to live through in my 14 year marriage sent me into extreme overdrive. Not dangerously extreme but still.
And now, after 2 years of pretty amazing sex, even though no making love, tantric sex or kamasutra, I can say I am turning away from it.
Not to say I don’t get horny or see the value of sex. It’s good for you. It’s good for your body. It’s good for your stress level. It’s good for your mind and soul. But the fetish sex life I’ve indulged in just doesn’t appeal to me anymore, at least not right now at all.
Wait for it….
What I’m trying to say is….
(Building suspense here)
I really think….
Be headed back to wanting vanilla sex
I can’t say where this is going
Except to say that I do know I’m absolutely over me being submissive. I don’t want any part of that. Maybe I’ll revisit that, but for now I’m absolutely certain.
And right this moment with all the madness of the world I’m happy to grab hold of the very few certainties I can. Lol
Know what I mean?🤣