If I was Your Girlfriend – Prince

I love that song. I’ve always loved it.

Irs funny that it came onto my playlist today. I was just thinking how I’m not sure I believe in Happily Ever After anymore.

Not in the movie way. More in the way of finding a life partner, that is your best friend. Someone who you can each be your best selves with but has enough love and compassion to accept and love you when you may be at your worst. Someone who you can stand against the world with and will be there for you through thick and thin.

So in that sense. I still don’t know that it will ever come for me. And the older I get the less I feel capable of even knowing what a healthy, happy, sane relationship is supposed to look and feel like.

I know right now is not the time to be looking and thinking of that anyway. I have enough on my plate.

My ex husband recommended the dating app Hinge. Lol. Who knows why? We aren’t really friends and he turns into a huge asshole when he’s dating and I’m pretty sure he hates it when I date other men so 🤷🏽‍♀️.

But I still do love that song.


Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

7 thoughts on “If I was Your Girlfriend – Prince”

    1. Right amount of knowledge or years? Yea. I’m not sure what that is supposed to be. I find much older men boring. Men my age are more interested in girls much younger and while I enjoy younger men I don’t want to rob them of the things I’ve already lived. So🤷🏽‍♀️


  1. So many women become disillusioned because they believe the “fairy tale” of happily ever after. It sounds so good when you hear it and so many women want that… then they get whacked by life’s realities and find that happily ever after is some pie in the sky kind of crap that really doesn’t exist in the way it was presented to them.

    Men believe it, too; they’re gonna find that one woman who’s gonna make their lives all that and then some but sometimes not realizing that women have great faith and belief in the fairy tale and the moment she realizes she’s been duped, well, homey, kiss your part of the fairy tale goodbye.

    My mother once told me, “Your relationships are only going to be as good as both of you are willing to make it…” and, of course, she was right on the money with that one. It’s not that it can’t be done because it can… but everyone has their version of the fairy tale and, as I learned, many, many people are more about “me” than they are about “us” except to pay lip service.

    I stopped believing in the fairy tale a very long time ago; it’s not a lie… but it’s a misrepresentation, some ideal situation that very few of us ever get to really experience… but, yeah, that song by Prince is a very good one.

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