I introduce you to pain languages*

It’s my own riff off of love languages

I’ve personally identified these three

Emotional abuse (love/)pain language

Physical abuse (love/)pain language

And unfortunately

Sexual abuse (love/)pain language

Now these are much more visceral than the love languages

These stake their claim on your psyche much stronger

Because they are a big part of your subconscious

And can even be a huge part of your conscious identity

I’m sure there are many more (love/)pain languages

Having to neatly compartmentalize them into something catchy that sounds really gimmicky

Now that’s another thing.

😂🤣😂

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*But I think these patterns are much more significant to your life than love languages because you will do almost anything to either consciously avoid or subconsciously relive these languages that have been defaulted to you through past experiences of abuse and pain.

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