I’ve known him for over two years now. He contacted me on FetLife when I first became active on there. He was persistent but in a very flattering way. Eventually we did meet and have sex. For casual sex it was in the top 3, for sure. I put him on my St. Andrews Cross and played with him, cautiously but with intention; biting his penis, slapping his ass, making him writhe in anticipation.
He spent the night and we held each other all night; literally all night we were in a tight embrace. It struck me as odd, because I had never done that before. Never; not with boyfriend’s, not with my husband, not with other lovers. Maybe we started in an embrace or holding hands or touched and hugged here and there but the entire night. It was not something I had planned, but it was extremely intimate and didn’t feel odd at all.
A while back we had made plans to have a threesome: Brad, he and I. But in true L fashion he started putting all these stipulations on it and it just fizzled out.
So recently when he asked me if I would be his virtual Master I contemplated it. I told him that in order to get a sense for how and if it would work he needed to start by texting me everything; what he was doing, how he was feeling, sending me pictures. I wanted to know everything.
We did this for about 4 days. He sent me pictures of his bees, told me when he was masturbating, what he was eating, on and on…all day long texts and pictures like these.
His desires were to be the perfect slave and sexual play toy, even if for now just virtually. His wife has no qualms with this. But she also has no desire to be part of his play. They have an interesting arrangement.
He and I have several fetishes in common already so there is a lot for us to enjoy about and with each other, but truthfully I never did like (even though his wife has no issue) that he is married. But all the same I did contemplate what he was asking for.
Except….. and here is where (even though he told me I could write about him in this blog) he might not like what I am about to say….he is a demanding, petulant and bratty submissive. Which oddly enough I don’t actually mind. But while he probably thought I was only being curious I was actually accessing everything very closely. What was he offering? How was his follow through? How did he respond to my requests?
All in all, while not unpleasant, it was a lot of time and energy to give someone and while his desire is to be submissive, his disposition is not quite there entirely.
I, of course, know that I am a very demanding dominant and I also do not like repeating myself or having to exercise my authority repeatedly except in situations of fun and pleasure.
It was overall a very interesting dalliance, but I know myself. I know how possessive I am. How when I want someone I want all of them. I want to be their only charge. And that’s not something I can have with him. Did I even want that with him? I don’t think I did. Because when I really want something or someone I go after it and this was definitely not that.