Happy Birthday to meπŸ₯³

It’s that day again. I have always enjoyed celebrating birthdays; not just my own but everyone’s. My ex-husband used to have this thing where he never told his co-workers it was his birthday so if he had to work I would bring a cake and pizza to his workplace and embarrass the crap out of him. I would laugh so hard doing it too. I threatened to send clowns; but that never happened because he started requesting his birthday off.

He was the first one to text me today. But Brad still won that battle by dropping off my present and a balloon last night after I went to sleep. I have somehow gotten myself into these situations between men my entire life, sometimes even completely unbeknownst to me. One time I had two best friends make a $1 bet to see who would get me first. I only found out after I began dating one of them. I used to think it was just a way to give them permission to both pursue me but now I lean more to thinking that people; especially men, love to compete. But who knows?

My mother asked me what I wanted. I said “freedom”. Once she made me clarify how I meant it exactly she told me it was too far above her pay grade and we settled on a box of See’s Candy.

One of the kidlets has two doc appointments today. So we will be out all afternoon together; come home, shower and wash/disinfect our clothes.

My eldest drew me this. It’s from a photo of when she was small. What else could I want in life?


The bank gave me notice that I have until the end of the month to make my first mortgage payment on the loan modification terms. At that time they’ll start foreclosure proceedings, but I can also reapply. Except I don’t see the point right now. It will buy me more time, but πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™€οΈ. I suppose if I can rent out the house at that time and at least keep my investment, but I can’t predict anything with the way the world is going right now.

I am still seeing if I get the hardest hit loan from the state. But I’m not sure, if it even comes through, it will be enough to cover what I owe.

So I’ve started to spitball ideas of where to move. Guessing this summer we will have to make that happen. That seems so far away though, even though it’s only 2 months from now really. My expenses are so high living here that even without paying a mortgage but especially without my part-time job and currently having my businesses closed I can not afford to live here. I am having to draw from my meager savings. Which I’m sure is what a lot of people are having to do right now.

I do have colonic clients wanting to come in and I’m hearing from a lot of people wanting to sell things on consignment on eBay. So, now that my liver is back and I’m feeling pretty good I guess I’ll start working next week.

Honestly, truthfully, there are instances where I can stop people from going to emergency with colonics. I hate that people get to that point, but I’m glad I can help people avoid going to the hospital; especially now. Right?

Well……off to start my day.

Big hug from my heart to yours.


Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

18 thoughts on “Happy Birthday to meπŸ₯³”

    1. Thank you kindly. I hope things are good in your world; all things considered. I went out and jumped on the trampoline with the kidlets and buried a dead squirrel in the yard. Feeling productive. Lol. Life is good. I’ll take my smiles where I can get them. Stay blessed! πŸ€—πŸ₯°πŸ™πŸ½

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      1. Other than the insanity that has gripped our area, it’s just another day for me; staying in, only going out when I absolutely have to – gloved and masked – and just keeping myself occupied.

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    1. Thanks David! πŸ₯° That all sounds fun. I was watching a documentary about Greenbank West Virginia that has 10 mile dead zone. I am a hippy at heart. But I’m glad I was born now and not back in that era. Women and minority rights are much better now.

      Off to bed. It’s been a great day. Are you guys required to wear masks? I’m thinking it’s not a bad idea and I think I’m going to start doing that in public. Not sure about work though and I definitely can’t keep my distance from people doing colonics. So we shall see.

      Goodnight sweat manπŸ’‹

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      1. No masks. There’s a nursing home/rrehab center about 1 km from our home where a large number of patients have died from COVID-19. Pretty bad. This is the biggest economic disloc a room since The Great Depression. Foreign and Trade policy with China are effectively devastated.This is bigger th a n 9/11 by a factor of 10.


        1. I know. I agree. But let’s not panic. Let’s hope together, maybe as a world come together to solve this problem. On some level I think that is possible and hopeful. And if not we’ll, let’s hope we each can find peace in our own lives in our own way. That’s all anyone can hope for in life anyway.

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          1. Even if we can’t talk or mingle. Such a strange thing. Reminds me of my week at the Buddhist temple. It was a lot like this. You had to walk by people giving them ample space gracefully, calmly, looking straight ahead and then just as your passing each other now, that’s it. No other contact, no looking each other in the eyes. It was very surreal. I loved it though too strangely. It was very serene I guess. But u like being in my head. Lol

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  1. Happy birthday!!!
    You know you are doing something right when that is the card you are given…
    May this year bring goodness and happiness…
    Love, light, and glitter

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