Although I’m not a black queer man I understood a lot of these feelings; the abandonment, loneliness, self harm and abuse.
Now I’m not sure the blame can lay exactly where they place a lot of it. In life there always seem to be victims and perpetrators. When we focus on only one type of perpetrator it doesn’t help solve the entire problem. But this article didn’t give solutions, however it did seem to want to create a whole us vs them vibe. I detest that.