Take my own advice, melatonin* via masturbating

I can’t believe how many times that has been the case lately. I’ll give someone advice, whether it’s relationship, life, emotional, spiritual or just general tips and I’ll think back afterwards and realize I could use the same exact advice, given the same way, but from myself to myself; i.e. compassionate, honest advice especially when it comes to self love, following your passion, giving yourself grace, etc.

Some advice I gave today included:

If you’re going to indulge in something, let yourself truly enjoy it. Don’t feel guilty and bad about it**; not during or after. Everyone deserves a treat once in a while. Let yourself have joy.

Stop talking about yourself that way. You’re too hard on yourself. (You deserve your own love.)

Set boundaries, have expectations for how you deserve to be treated but also within that be a little softer so you can let people in.

The right man won’t make you feel like you’re crazy.

You built him up into this thing that probably doesn’t even exist. It isn’t probably real and yet now you hold everyone to those standards. What you need to do is focus on all the qualities you didn’t like about him and burn it all to the ground as if he never even existed.***

She had indulged in some shopping and said how lately it’s one of the few things bringing her joy. I said nothing. She asked me what I was thinking, so I answered honestly. I said “I know how you feel, but sometimes what we seek outside of ourselves we have to find on the inside.”

I realized after she left that I myself could use all this same advice. Although, I’ve been giving myself too many yummy treats lately. Lol

Auugghh…..I’m so tired. I can barely think straight. We decided on A Dog’s Journey for our movie tomorrow. Client, errands, kids birthday party and then our own pity party tomorrow. Monday I need to wake up early and do paperwork before work, then a client and hopefully finish up the paperwork to turn it in Tuesday. I’m hoping just under the wire.

I think I need to masturbate.

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*Actually the body releases oxytocin and prolactin, but you get the drift.

**Assuming of course it’s not something to feel bad about. In this case she was enjoying a treat.

***It may sound harsh but she idolizes him way to much and to her own detriment. She can’t move on and she is pretty miserable. This man refused to meet her reasonable expectations. The relationship is over. What use is it being so unhappy? She will still have the memories. But it’s in her best interest to let him go. She has to tear him down in her own mind to build herself back up. That’s the easiest way. Time heals….sure, sure. But sometimes you need to light the fire and watch it burn. I said it was harsh. Such is life sometimes.

Of course this is also the girl that spent seven years mourning another relationship. I understand this. I once mourned a coworker for a year after only one date. Of course still working with him didn’t help matters.

It sucks to miss someone. A death is a different story entirely of course but when one has to end a relationship you need to be able to cut that cord and move on with your life; for your own sake.

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol