Before I met my ex husband I was deeply into astrology and Wicca and plant, herb and ritual based remedies and encantations or prayers. I was also primarily pescatarian. After we got married that all changed.
To be fair we only knew each other 7 months when I got pregnant with our first. We were swiftly married via county clerk so I could be on his health plan. Romantic, I know.
We also came from starkly different backgrounds. But I realized early on that I wasn’t really being given the space to be myself and I molded into more of the wife he expected me to be. We never discussed much, but especially not spirituality and politics. The few times very early on I tried to bring up astrology I got bad feedback and to cap it off he not only hated fish….he could not stand the smell. So I couldn’t even cook it for myself.
So I let it all go. Astrology. Spirituality. Seafood. On and on the list goes.
Now…. we are divorced 3 years. He has matured somewhat, learned to fend for himself a bit around the house AND learned astrology. I can even say he probably knows more than I ever did. And it chafes my hide like you would not believe every time he brings it up. Which is seriously way too often. Oh you’re being a typical aries he will say or such and such did this and they are definitely (insert sign). πππ
I don’t consider myself a petty person. I usually let people have their experiences and learn their lessons through Karma. But sometimes I really just get so π‘π€¬π .
Oh fuck that
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Exactly!!!
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Maybe you shouldn’t see him so often. π
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I know. I wish that were possible but he’s my only help with the kids. And with the sick one I don’t know what I would do right now without his help. It’s a rock and a hard place. Those seem my choices in life right now and I’m trying so hard to flip the script. Thankfully I’m not feeling as bad about it all as the girl last night but… I do feel like crying this morning.
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Sweetheart, needing help with the kids does put you in a bind. I don’t want togive you meaningless, off the cuff advice, because I cant say anything that’s going to help. Anyway, women don’t always expect guys to solve things, but sometimes all they need is someone who will listen.
I’m here, and I will listen.
Don’t forget, if you want you can always email me on jackcollier7@talktalk.net
Love
Jack
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Thanks Jack!! That means a lot to me. β£οΈβ£οΈβ£οΈ
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