Before I met my ex husband I was deeply into astrology and Wicca and plant, herb and ritual based remedies and encantations or prayers. I was also primarily pescatarian. After we got married that all changed.
To be fair we only knew each other 7 months when I got pregnant with our first. We were swiftly married via county clerk so I could be on his health plan. Romantic, I know.
We also came from starkly different backgrounds. But I realized early on that I wasn’t really being given the space to be myself and I molded into more of the wife he expected me to be. We never discussed much, but especially not spirituality and politics. The few times very early on I tried to bring up astrology I got bad feedback and to cap it off he not only hated fish….he could not stand the smell. So I couldn’t even cook it for myself.
So I let it all go. Astrology. Spirituality. Seafood. On and on the list goes.
Now…. we are divorced 3 years. He has matured somewhat, learned to fend for himself a bit around the house AND learned astrology. I can even say he probably knows more than I ever did. And it chafes my hide like you would not believe every time he brings it up. Which is seriously way too often. Oh you’re being a typical aries he will say or such and such did this and they are definitely (insert sign). 🙄🙄🙄
I don’t consider myself a petty person. I usually let people have their experiences and learn their lessons through Karma. But sometimes I really just get so 😡🤬😠.