Well. I did it. Kind of.
FetLife is not a dating app. They tell you that themselves. It has no algorithms to help you date locally really. It isn’t set up for that. But still…..there are a plethora of men on there and I can be open about my fetishes. Since it isn’t an app. It’s not like I’ve upgraded my profile and will now be seen by all the men in the northwest. Lol. But still… it makes me tingle. I could break that down but I just want to enjoy it.
I’m really not even sure what I’m hoping for exactly. I guess if I’m honest with myself it’s meeting someone I could feel head over heels for. But I don’t know how realistic or healthy that really is. I can get pretty lovingly obsessive and I can’t explain it but most people seem to enjoy it. I like it too. I like it maybe too much. Can that be a thing?
Here is what my profile on FetLife now says:
Long term: I want to get married again (but I’m definitely not ready right now, stop rushing me).
Short term: a friends with benefits and an absolutely no drama situation (because I’ll be providing some of that I’m sure).
Either way must:
Be very intelligent
Have own comfortable and clean place (not more than 20 miles from 97068)
Be single (no poly, no still living with ex as friends, no odd situations)
Be a pretty decent human being or a person of truth, valor and humanity (is this still a thing?)
& if possible:
Have some expendable money to do fun stuff or be creative enough to still do fun stuff with no funding.
Please note it isnt all about sex or BDSM. Clearly not because I’m
willing to give it a year before I just settle for the first guy that
can give me the most orgasms. Lol Technique isn’t everything, not
that it hurts. Toys aren’t my thing (asked absolutely no one). I only
need and want to focus on one love. So, if at all interested in any of
the before mentioned terms please introduce yourself properly and tell
me what it is you want.
As an aside that is mentionable. I don’t drink alcohol. I do enjoy THC.
(If you shot your shot before……please re-engage if you still desire me)