I had a really neat client today. Somehow we got on the subject of Sub vs Dom. It got me thinking. Maybe next year I find myself both a sub and a dominant. Keep them separate since it’s so hard to compartamentalize those things. I love switching, literally I do, but I can see why it gets confusing.
That’s a whole two months away so who knows by then. Plus then it’s a matter of finding them. Although I actually think it will be much simpler finding 2 men to be very much who they think they are vs finding a true switch; i.e. someone who is genuinely good and passionate about both and can be fluid with it. It seems like a lot to ask.
But this got me to also thinking about how there can be Dominants in many facets of a relationship; not just sexually. Right? Intellectually, physically, verbally, emotionally, financially, and so on. I don’t know that it matters as much to have a balance of dominance vs submissive characteristics when it comes to the capacities outside of sex. I don’t think being incompatible would be too detrimental but then again……maybe so.
This all begets more thinking, but not today me thinks. 😂😂😂