Chastity vs celibacy *updated

I read a fabulous post today here from one of my favorite subs in a full time flr. I had just been thinking about this same subject last night at the sex club.

How much I truly enjoy not having sex so much more than having it. Don’t get me wrong. I can have sex multiple times a day every day and be absolutely thrilled but not orgasming and just edging or pushing someone to their limits is sometimes so euphoric it beats sex.

I know I’m in control of myself, but I don’t trust other people with their own control. Ho hum.

You know….. if I had my own sex club I’d have a naked day, an edging day, oh so many days, but they would all be inclusive days where everyone of every lifestyle of sex would be welcome and adored equally: trans, cis, vanilla, extreme, costumes, heteroflexible, all of it!!! Age, consent and desire; all else is fair game. Safe sex as well of course, because well…….who wants an STD really? Right?

*Ohhhh and Sunday service and potluck, because everyone has a spiritual journey in this life.

Oh but to dream. So enchanting indeed.


Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

2 thoughts on “Chastity vs celibacy *updated”

  1. I think a lot of people are starting to understand some things about sex that aren’t lick, suck, then stick, like how pleasurable it can be to work someone over and shoving them over the edge and your only pleasurable interest is being the instrument of their “doom.”

    I’ve been with women who I’ll just go down on in the spur of the moment, get them off, and go back to whatever I was doing… and I feel wonderful. I’ve been with women who have told me, “Do what you gotta do… but don’t make me cum, okay?” Now, you’d think that making her cum is the whole reason for having sex with her… and sometimes it isn’t.

    Real enough these days, people find more pleasure in denying or seriously delaying release than they do getting someone off; instead of the usual instant gratification, it’s all about delayed gratification and finding the fun and pleasure in not being gratified in the usual and expected way. I think that makes “normal” sexual gratification and release much better and more appreciated.

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