Pain is usually trying to teach you something, fortunately or unfortunately. If you can learn from it you can usually move away from having that same pain again.*
I like BDSM pain. When you have a dominant who knows your limits, who you know won’t cross any lines, but takes you right to the edge of where you want to be. In that zone where you breath in the pain, where you take it in and it becomes enjoyable to the point of ecstacy. Then couple that with a real orgasm, real intimacy, real love. Heaven!!
I miss being dominant. I’m feeling neither way at the moment. I have no one to really play with right now anyway. It’s fine. I’m not complaining. I’ve got so much going on in my life it feels like I’m trying to run upside down inside a weightless space chamber. Not the sexiest of imagery. Lol.
Just a lot going on. 🤷🏽♀️
*Every situation is different though of course.