Pain is usually trying to teach you something, fortunately or unfortunately. If you can learn from it you can usually move away from having that same pain again.*


I like BDSM pain. When you have a dominant who knows your limits, who you know won’t cross any lines, but takes you right to the edge of where you want to be. In that zone where you breath in the pain, where you take it in and it becomes enjoyable to the point of ecstacy. Then couple that with a real orgasm, real intimacy, real love. Heaven!!

I miss being dominant. I’m feeling neither way at the moment. I have no one to really play with right now anyway. It’s fine. I’m not complaining. I’ve got so much going on in my life it feels like I’m trying to run upside down inside a weightless space chamber. Not the sexiest of imagery. Lol.

Just a lot going on. 🤷🏽‍♀️


*Every situation is different though of course.

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

16 thoughts on “Pain”

  1. Pain tells you at least two things: One, something is wrong and, two, you’re still alive. But we learn about that thin line between pain and pleasure and that endorphin rush which is the body’s reaction to pain… and it can be heady and even orgasmic.

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          1. The usual question is, “Does it hurt?” and depending on the tattoo and where it’s being placed, yeah – it can hurt like a bitch before it actually turns into a pleasurable feeling. Not so much orgasmic – just kinda nice.

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          2. It’s an interesting sensation for something asexual and the endorphin high is… nice as it mixes with the pain of just getting inked. The ones on my chest hurt like a bitch… until the endorphins kicked in and balanced me on that thin line between pleasure and pain. It’s also why, for some, getting inked is addictive – because it hurts so good.

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          3. Ahhhhh…..
            I like my marks to go away. Lol

            Plus I’m just not that sure I’ll be into whatever I get on my body in 10, 20, 30 years. Speaks more to my indifference to most things I guess. Lol


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