Hook-up Culture

I was reading a compilation of “100 sex, threesome, orgy stories that will make you want to give up sex”. I thought it would be funny and some were but mostly it was very, very sad.

Most seemed from young people with little experience about sex and a complete lack of body awareness. Not only not knowing their own body mechanics but not honoring themselves. As if their body was simply to be used as a tool with a complete disassociation to its true needs and capacities. As if their own flesh and blood didn’t merit kindness, love, compassion, time and decency.

As if they were just going through the motions of what they thought needed to happen instead of looking deep inside to what they truly wanted to happen. It showed me how people seem to have a complete disregard for themselves. And how on Earth will anyone have any regard for someone else if they can’t even come to terms with their own self? It’s possible and does happen that people treat others better than they treat themselves but it’s generally short lived, inauthentic, unsustainable, creates resentment and also begets more problems further along as it keeps going.

Like a snowball of shit rolling down a mountain. At it’s core it’s still shit, no matter how much snow surrounds it.

We aren’t taught self-love enough. We aren’t taught to truly enjoy our bodies in loving, respectful, healthy ways. Yes, our bodies are utilitarian, but it goes so beyond that also. I was thinking of buying my daughter a book on self love, aka masturbation. In more of a vein of self/body awareness. I think it’s important to truly appreciate oneself and ones body first before delving deeply into sex.

But who teaches people that? There is a huge disconnect between what we should be taught and what we are taught. Education seems very disassociated from our actual needs as human beings. To add dimension and awareness to the depths of our conscious and subconscious selves, the miracle of our bodies and life. It’s surreal to me that we have to go hunting for these things that will truly make our lives happy….like a secret quest no one tells us about.

In the whole mind, body, spirit dynamic of our existence far too much emphasis is placed on academics and far too little on body and spirit. Yet those are the very things that truly give our lives meaning and day to day quality of life happiness. It’s like some huge distraction tactic. I don’t get it. I really don’t get it.

Thousands and thousands and thousands of years of this crap and things seem no better for humanity. But hey…..look at all those nuclear weapons we have. Thanks academia. Thanks science. How many world’s can we blow up now? Cuz that’s not retarded at all.

Screw it. Fuck away kiddos. Just be safe and kind with yourselves and each other. Please!!

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

11 thoughts on “Hook-up Culture”

    1. That seems like it would correlate. You sinuses connected to your mouth. All infected and inflammed. Make sure you’re taking a probiotic of your on antibiotics and an anti-inflammatory. Tumeric and inner fillet aloe vera work great for inflammation.

      Hurry up and get better. πŸ’‹πŸ₯°πŸ€—πŸ˜


  1. Good post. All in all. I must say that I didn’t need a class in self-love, in order to masturbate. But hey, that’s just me. I understand that things may be different for womyn, wimmin, or women as the case may be.
    I would like to make my own nuclear bomb. It would be cool. Trump would come to my house. I could use the bomb to go hunting, kill and microwave in one step.

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    1. You’re so silly.

      I think boys need to learn self love too and body awareness. Like that there is nothing wrong with ass play and it’s not just for girls or bi/gay men. It feels good for men and it’s ok. But to be sensible and safe and body aware.

      You’d be like madam Curie if you made your own bomb. Doesn’t seem worth it. Microwaves are super cheap. Lol.

      How are you feeling?


      1. I’m in rare form. I was messing with your head on the self-love issues. You’re right.
        I feel pretty good. I had some body and jaw pain. So I took a hydrocodone. Then proceeded to have a totally weird dream in honor of my mother. J said Mom came to visit in my head for her birthday.. Mwah πŸ’‹

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        1. Seems she did. Those mother’s. So meddlesome. Aren’t they? Even dead they can’t just let go. Lol

          Sorry about your jaw. Taking its sweet time to heal isn’t it.

          Sometimes when I’m in pain I don’t know if I want to yell at it or sooth it like a crying baby. Lol

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          1. Do what you need to do, just be mindful that it can adversely affect your digestion. Pain is very stressful on your body and mind. So bringing it down to a bearable level is necessary.


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