This is a good thing. I mean yes it can also be seen as a bad thing but that’s the equivalent of saying money is evil. Money is not inherently evil. Money is simply a way to move commodities and services. It can entice people to do some pretty corrupt and ruthless things for sure though. But that can be said of a great many things that most people would never consider “evil”.
So I have to find a way to come to terms with my own sexuality and be happy and at peace with how I navigate my own desires and activities. I need to remember who I want to be. If I were to die right this moment would I be okay with everyone knowing about my sex life?
And even if no one finds out, which generally isn’t the case, am I ok with seeing it all played back to me at the end and being ultimately judged by that? Most of it I had no choice about, early on, but since then most of it I have had ample choosing of.
I get to choose now and choice is a beautiful thing.*