End it or normalize it

If society can’t end an issue

Than we have to accept it and normalize it

(We all know things “shouldn’t” exist but it seems to me going way very far back we’ve been a bunch of fucking retards, so it has existed, does exist, and it probably will continue to exist.)

So, for example if rape is going to exist then we have to acknowledge that people get raped and talk about it out in the open (I know gasp gasp). But this let’s it not be a thing of shame, sacrifice, ADDITIONAL pain and discomfort on the part of the “victim*”, but maybe an avenue for support from society.

If racism is going to exist

Then maybe we should accept it and just be fucking honest about it. Lying doesn’t help it at all and only goes to add salt to the wound.

I don’t have the answers here, but I know “that’s not the way” when I see it and almost any deviation at this point seems good. How many years are we going to continue the status quo? Spiritually speaking. Logically speaking. Something that works a little better for everyone, a little at least. Lol

It’s because people don’t want to be the asshole, isn’t it? No one wants repercussions for their actions. I get it. No one does.**

But integrity*** isn’t a “value”. Integrity(/humanity) is the currency of our soul. That to me seems worth any price.


*I’m sorry. I just hate that word…it’s a personal hang-up

**Plus historically and geographically speaking if you are on the non-powerplay sides of this equation it could cost you your life. That’s not nothing.

***Not the kind that is manipulative and false. The kind that is universally good in kindness and strength of spirit.


We ALL need to help each other out so much more than we do. We need to help the earth. We need patience with each other. Compassion.

If I were to leave the world with only two words it would be:

Have Compassion

But the world seems to be doomed to more of a Mad Max escapade it seems. If we even get to that. Lol

Why should I care? Worrying amounts to absolutely nothing.

Prayer. Mindfulness. Preparation while still maintaining balance.

We all need balance. That balance is inside of us each. It can get shaken. To it’s very core. But it can also just be there. Still in the quiet of your deepest most part of our hearts and soul.


I get it

We all get to a point where

We just let it be alright

Don’t we?

No matter what “it” is

Good or bad?

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but itโ€™s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

5 thoughts on “End it or normalize it”

    1. Lol. Thanks. That actually means a lot to me. That I can affect that on you. It’s not all meaningless jibber-jabber after all. It mattered to one person.

      Honestly that just made my day. Thanks for sharing. ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿค—๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

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      1. Thatโ€™s why Iโ€™m here ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿงšโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป
        You bring up important issues that most people would rather not talk aboutโ€”but we need to. And you keep it positive. I appreciate that. Keep writing and sharing!

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      2. Thanks.

        I try. Some things are hard to make light of. I’m not trying to re-traumatize anyone. But. I agree that these are important topics and I’m so sick of sweeping shit under the rug. I’ve done it my whole life and I’m just done. On a personal level. I just want to speak my truth. In all it’s multifaceted aspects.


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      3. I hear you. Same with my blog. Itโ€™s quite a privilege and awesome responsibility to be able to speak our truths here. And you nailed itโ€”dignity and compassion. So true. And a sense of humor doesnโ€™t hurt either! ๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿงšโ€โ™€๏ธ

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