For me one of the bottom lines in a bad relationship is that you don’t like who you are around them. For whatever reason. The thing is that at what point is it not just frivolous? I guess at the point where it seems harmful. Where it hurts your self-esteem maybe? I have no idea. I’m still working on myself. I’m still learning to set boundaries. Still. 46 yo. Lol. That was so stupidly lame. Wasn’t it? Yo! OMG. I said it again? Lol yo-yo-yo……
Someone stop me.
Ultimately our self esteem is based on a reflection of self shown back to us. But what we take on and hold on to is in our control. Isn’t it?