I personally don’t feel there is any harm in letting out your anger, frustrations, emotions and issues via sex. I just think when other people are involved that should require permission, age appropriate people and desire.
For every lid there is a bowl (at least one). Maybe it takes you a while to find it, but it’s out there somewhere……. and the ecstasy will come, that true deep fulfilling release will come when you find it.
Meanwhile there are professional Domme’s and sex workers out there for almost every single desire and need that they will, given appropriate monetary incentive, willingly do.
I have no issue with real sex workers. Absolutely none. It’s the undercover stuff, it’s the lack of one of the three rules above that is the real issue. It’s the system of oppression and abuse. They seem to go hand in hand but they don’t necessarily have to. Sex trade has been around since the beginning of mankind and will continue to be around. I don’t see why this is such a problem for people.
If it doesn’t involve you and you wan’t nothing to do with it fine, great, stay out of it then. That’s my take. But I tend to be both very idealistic and overly logical sometimes. We can’t possibly police the entire world. But we can stop punishing and start regulating things that will exist regardless of how people feel about it. That just makes more sense. Start being part of a manageable solution that offers a win/win for everyone.
I wish it was simply a case of “I don’t like this so it will no longer exist”. But that’s now the way this world works. However if we all roll up our sleeves and pitch in, with compassion for each other and ourselves….real miracles can happen.