Birthdays are not for the faint of heart

Birthdays have usually been a disappointment for me. Going back to when I was a little girl and my father would tell me he was coming to my party and I would anxiously await his arrival and no matter who did come or what presents I got I was always crying at the end of the night because he didn’t show up.

As an adult birthdays were also not usually noteworthy. Even when I was married no one really made a huge fuss or a big surprise for me. They were ok, all just ok. Nothing to complain about and nothing memorable; which is fine. Today did not exactly break that mold but it did have it’s wonderful highlights.

Brad came early and we had sex. I tied his penis but even then it went soft after a bit. Fortunately he has gotten really good at manually finding my g-spot and I climaxed over and over and over until I finally gave way to the best orgasm I’ve had in months.

Then we went to lunch at a new restaurant I’ve been wanting to try out. Unfortunately they could not accommodate my dietary restrictions, but since I was already going to veer from them I just went all out. I immediately got a stomach ache though and even Brad commented that I seemed foggy brained afterwards.

We then went to habitat for humanity but they wouldn’t honor my coupon claiming that their specific store didn’t send it and that was that. Funny that even when I told the waitress and the checker at habitat it was my birthday, (casually of course) no one said happy birthday to me. It was irritating, but whatever.

Spaghetti Factory was awesome and Brad gave me money which I plucked into the one arm bandit and felt bad about afterwards. I am so done with those stupid machines. Done!!

My daughters gave me some very thoughtful gifts and Brad was pampering me and paying for everything all day.

Overall….. it was pretty great truth be told. Oh and the chocolate cake he bought me was the best chocolate cake I’ve ever had and there has been no shortage of chocolate cakes in my life. Lol

Tomorrow morning I am taking castor oil to purge all this decadence from my body and then right into a juice fast for the liver cleanse Friday night/Saturday morning.

I don’t mean to sound ungrateful. I’m not trying to be, so I hope it’s not coming across that way. It was truly a very nice day. Rain and all.

Truthfully I’m glad it’s over though. Tomorrow reverts back to just another day with no expectations of grandeur and basking in self absorption.

Goodnight and happy birthday to me…….. and life…..let’s keep um coming; as long as I’m healthy, happy, sane and still having fun. πŸ˜‰πŸ₯³πŸŽˆπŸ’–

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

25 thoughts on “Birthdays are not for the faint of heart”

      1. I had had a breakup with my girlfriend at the time, so I was on the rebound. That’s when I met K, a Nubian goddess. It started out normal enough, but over a few weeks time, a sub/dom relationship ensued. Details? I was to be naked all of the time, even when friends were over. I could only speak when K allowed me to. My role was to service her and her friends. That was anything from a simple massage to performing oral on them. But K was the only one I could fuck. I’ve been tied to bedposts, blindfolded while D would ravage my face and K was riding me. A cockring was often used. I could only cum when allowed to and my ring removed. K was very possessive- and jealous. When she figured out that I favored D, she said that D wanted to fuck me. I only found out what her plan was when I was bound and gagged one night. The devil was in how she said it. D did fuck me that night, but in a very different way.

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      2. Wait. So where they a couple or roommates? Did she peg you? I’m till full of questions? How long did it last? What else did you do? What ended it? Was it just for fun?


      3. K lived alone, but s was her friend. I did get pegged, but didn’t even know that was going to happen. I was strapped downs on this carpeted box, which would keep me in a doggy style position. They both had taken turns fucking me.

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      4. I was very sore and embarrassed. I didn’t see that coming and was confused. The whole experience was taped, and we watched it on occasion. It kind of broke me, and after that night, I simply assumed my role as a sub. There wasn’t ant discipline, unless you want to consider cock restrictions as such.

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  1. Happy birthdayyyyyy.
    Sounds like you had a pretty good one.
    And I know what you mean, I get pretty tense during my birthdays too.
    Especially when my friends have prepared a ‘surprise’ party for me and I have to fake like I hadn’t known about it since weeks before. At least I found out that acting really isn’t my forte πŸ˜‚.
    Anyway, back to you, hope you always stay healthy and have a blast doing whatever it is that you do ❀❀.

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    1. Thank you. I’m a horrible actress too. That would be torture; pretending not to know. I’ve never had a surprise party planned for me, so that would be cool. I would have to have friends for that to work and my few friends are all over the globe.

      Weddings and funerals seems to be the only time I see people.

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      1. Wow, gee, now I feel bad πŸ˜ͺ.
        But surprise parties aren’t all that great anyway. I’d much rather spend my special day with my close ones just the way you did, so I’m not really sure if you’re missing out on much anyway, you know? 😘
        Also, you have friends all over the globe? That’s so cool. Hope I’m one of them πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.
        In all seriousness though, it must feel really awesome once you all do get together for whatever occasion. It just makes every other meeting that much more special because you know it’s rare.

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      2. That is so true and with good friends you pick up exactly where you left off as if they had been there the whole time. It’s really beautiful that way.

        I’d love to visit your part of the world. There is so much beauty and wonder in this world I’m sure I could spend many lifetimes here and not see half of it.

        Thank you for your kind replies. You are such a sweet soul. πŸ’–πŸ™πŸ½πŸ’‹

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