I just took the attachment style quiz. This is different than love language, but complimentary. It tells you how the relationship with your caretakers as a child shaped your attachment style as an adult.
I found it fascinating and I was far more stable than I thought I would be frankly. But I do have to say I am a little different with each man so it just depends.
The thing I found most fascinating is that I did not have a secure childhood and yet….. well. IDK. Surprised myself even. I do have to give a lot of credit to the self-awareness and therapy sessions these last few years. Am I still obsessive? Absolutely! Am I still co-dependant? Yep! Undoubtedly. Do I care? Nope. Not one bit. Do I still believe in true love and idealize it far too much. Yes…yes I do. So what?
I’m ok with who I am. I’m just trying to figure out who that is. Always learning, growing, knowing, expanding. I enjoy silly things like this.
Try it for yourself. 💋🥰