Submission is earned, not taken and negotiation

I l ove the BDSM lifestyle and I don’t care what anyone thinks…. I loved the 50 Shades books. I loved Anne Rice’s Sleeping Beauty Quartet much better, but whatever. All good. What I think lacks in life (in general) is a lot of common sense.

I think sex, porn, lust, excitement can lead people down slippery slopes. But people can be fulfilled and still respect each others desires and wishes. It can very much be a win/win.

I always come back to this. If a man who wanted to cut off his penis and eat it could find another man willing to cut it off and eat it with him then all things are possible. I’ll have to find that story. It’s hysterical and true which makes it even funnier.

Here are some great articles from a very informative writer on BDSM. Maybe to some of you they are way past your barometer. But it’s good to review the basics. 😝 Here’s to many, many more good times. 🦋💋



I believe these same precepts hold true for female dominants it’s just that most probably don’t need to be told this. I think so at least, but I’ve heard a couple ruthless stories about pro Dommes… who knows.

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

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