Dom me

I love being the dominant in the relationship. I always have. I always will. It’s just who I am.

I also like to read and respond to other writers on WordPress. I feel like when I talk to people one on one I sometimes can get through the barriers, but in responding to someone’s writing I feel people are much more receptive. I wish I could dialogue with writers and artists in person. I imagine a space for creatives to create and commune and debate and dance and be free to be their wacky desperate selves. That would be fun.

I was talking to a girl that loves hard: too hard for mortal men. It got me to thinking today that she has probably never loved a Dom man. A dominant man, much like a dominant woman eats up affection like oxygen in a fire. They not only need it, they demand it.

Obsession isn’t something that I see come up a lot in the venacular of BDSM. I believe because a lot of times it plays into the storyline.

Obsession to me is an integral part of how I love and expect to be loved. I don’t give two rats asses if it’s healthy or not. I don’t care what the psychological clarification of a good relationship is. They aren’t in my relationship. I am. My partner is. As long as we are on the same page and we aren’t harming others or each other (without proper age, desire and consent to do so😉) then go busy yourself elsewhere if it bothers you.

I don’t have to justify myself to anyone. Thank fucking God. Which let’s me be exactly who I am. Which gives me the freedom to go after exactly what I need. Which gives me joy. The journey is the adventure. May your journey be spectacular!


Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

5 thoughts on “Dom me”

    1. It has a depth to it, an intimacy that I find unequalled in vanilla relationships. A devotion, adoration, and vulnerability to it that is intrinsic to the power dynamic. It is consumed at the rate of passion. It doesn’t burn bright constantly but when it is ignited it is a thirst, a desire, a need that can only be quenched by ones beloved. By the obsessed over by the obsessor. It is a radiant sight.
      And this is as close at explaining it as I can probably get. If any of this makes sense. Lol


  1. Well put as always, I do enjoy your writing, it’s inspiring at times and almost always thought provoking. I don’t pretend to be a writer, it’s just something that has happened over the last few weeks. Not sure if I’ll stick with it or not, only time will tell. I do know that as I spend more time exploring this side of my personality I’m feeling more and more at home. You and some of the other blogs I follow are definitely a big part of that. Thx and keep it up!

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    1. Awwwwwww. Thank you.

      To gain insight into our deepest crevices can be hauntingly beautiful. It is like a long sought welcoming home. (If you don’t get caught in the cobwebs. Lol)

      Glad you are enjoying the ride. 😊💖

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