Brad has been trying to figure out why he liked seeing me fuck Kurt and why he enjoys the idea of me fucking my ex. He told me he used to masturbate to the idea of his ex-wife with her lover. But cuckhold didn’t seem to be how he felt. Once he came across compersion the lightbulb went on for him.
I like it much better as well. Humiliation and degradation is still a hard pill to swallow for me. I sometimes like it but mostly not. So compersion works better for both of us. See. Win/win. 🦋💋💖
Truthfully the more he wants me to sleep around the less I actually want to. Reverse psychology is real people. Lol. But I do want to play together with others and knowing he enjoys it too just makes me enjoy it even more. Could it get any better?
Now……his wife did leave him for this lover….but….he wasnt the man he is now either. I don’t think either of their emotional needs were being fulfilled. I think if you have intimacy and emotional satisfaction within your relationship then all play is just an augmentation to that. But I’m still learning as I go along too. Thankfully there are plenty of people ahead of me on this curb and I’m happy to have their guidance. 🙏🏽💖