I just understood this week some vital information about male ego
Vital to me at least. To my understanding of it.
A client told me that during her husband’s colonoscopy he had reflexive behavior to punch back at the invador of his ass, even while heavily sedated and out for the count. So it’s a subconscious thing. The answer as to why could be varied from incest/rape survivor to just mimicing homophobic behavior and being subconsciously made to hate anything close to it. I don’t know. Every story has many sides.
Also told that a lot of men while sober don’t or can’t have anal sex. They may want to but they just may not be able to face that desire head on unless a bit buzzed. I’m guessing. The real reasons may be varied. Drugs can definitely make you a bit pervy sometimes. I’ve never needed much incentive so I’m not the one to ask but so I have heard and seen. Lol.
No one should live in fear to be who they are.