Who do you visit with?


All this bullshit your hiding under is fear

Embrace your life

This is it people

This ain’t no rehearsal


It sounds preachy

Doesn’t it?

But when I set this down

I scream at the top of my lungs

In the softest whisper


Just to me

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

10 thoughts on “Who do you visit with?”

  1. Are you implying just live your life to the fullest embracing what ever happens good or bad even though it’s uncomfortable and out of your zone ?? In “who do you visit with”

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      1. See i feel you, but the hardest thing to do is like get your mind in that “fuck it imma do it” mood cuz theres always so much doubt. any advice to overcome that feeling?


      2. Well. Depends what it is. Every situation is different and can be seen many ways. Do you have any example? Or anything specific you are struggling with?

        Overall for me it’s been
        1) believe in yourself
        2) search your heart for the answer
        3) proceed even if you’re unsure
        4) give it to God
        5) sleep well at night
        6) rinse and repeat

        Kind of vague I guess. Again. Depends what the issue is. This is kind of like a general overview. Lol


      3. Yes an example is my dead end ass job at walmart. I wanna quit so bad and do some other shit but it takes a while to find a job sometimes and i cant struggle anymore than i already am lol. the one that stuck out to me most is number 3. that unsureness is probably my biggest fear.

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      4. Well. Here’s where I would just take steps in the direction you want to go. Do you have any clear vision about that? Any step in that direction will be exponentially beneficial.


      5. Yes I’m currently in school which makes me not think about it hard but when I gotta work I have the worst attitude lol . I guess it’s not moving fast enough to me. Everyone says be patient but I been patient all my life and still broke 😂 and when I say broke I mean paycheck to paycheck

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      6. Well…. I wish I could tell you that things will change. Statistically the majority of people live paycheck to paycheck.

        Listen. I don’t have easy answers. Whatever you NEED to do, try and do it with a happy heart and if you absolutely can’t then…. consider alternatives. Can’t ask more of yourself than your capable of. Happiness is moment to moment. So I can see why delaying happiness is not appealing or hard to ask of people. I agree. It is. No one wants that. It’s hard to see the big picture sometimes when you’re miserable in the present picture.

        Sometimes just changing how you see things helps them be manageable. Can you not find any joy at all in your current situation? Misery is easy to find. Ask 100 people get a million complaints. Seeing the positive. Focusing on the good. That’s not as easy. But it’s worth all the effort.

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      7. Thank you so much for your commentary ! Outta all the people I know and talked to your the only one who seems to actually understand what I’m trying to explain…

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      8. Lol. I’m trying to listen and understand your point of view. It’s a lost art. Let’s just say. Especially with people’s low attention spans and me-centric attitudes. But all I can do is what I do. Try. Lead by example. No one hits the mark always. I’m glad I could provide some insight. It’s always nice to felt heard and understood. We all need that in life. 💖🤗💋

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