Obedience is nice

Love is better

In the context of a relationship

I want both

It is never going to going to be “equal”

The power position is mine

Except in bed

When I allow it

Except when you obviously know more about a given subject

Except when I maybe need a nudge of clarification

And even then maybe

All ways are the Queen’s ways

All deferrence is to me

Like Gomez to Morticia*

Or what’s the point really?

What would be the fucking point?

I don’t NEED you

I WANT you

I give you love

And what I think you need

Clarification of needs is always good

Should I be missing the mark too much


If you aren’t happy here



*I recognize these are fictional characters but it’s the closest my reality as a child came to femdom and I idolize it to some extent. This is me being ME. You all go out and be yourselves. It can be fucking enjoyable, if you let it be. I’m still settling in, be careful of the dust. Construction in progress. 😉


I’ll be riding shotgun – Mike Braxton

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

7 thoughts on “Obedience is nice”

  1. Interesting I never thought of Gomez and Morticia as a femdom couple. I know most of the women on TV at that time were not equal to their husbands. I always saw this pair as being equals and neither one has more power than the other. I think it would be great if all couples were more like them.

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      1. I forgot all about that. They were definitely cute. Could you imagine how different the world would be if everyone had true love like that? When your heart is that full of love and joy then you can’t go out into the world and be mean. I used to joke with a friend that certain people were just mad because they were hungry. They were starving themselves to stay ideal but when you are happy you are kinder. I could go for some love and devotion. I got a truckload of cute names and ideas I’ve been waiting to share with the right person.

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      2. That sounds really sweet. And your right. A whole new world if people were happier and kinder.

        Well. Have you put yourself out there? Usually gotta reach out for what you want in life.


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