Why do I like control?

My mother was just here visiting again. She still doesn’t understand my need to Domme. She asked me why I like men giving me so much responsibility for their lives. She reminded me how Kurt would ask me what to wear in the morning. She asked if I don’t get enough of that with the kids.

I laughed. I tried explaining that it was different. With the kids the responsibility is inherent. But men choose to give up control to me. Which makes it a delight I just don’t have words for. A pleasure that satiates me at levels nothing else does.

Why do I like it? Well….first of all it goes a lot farther than like. But I’ll see if can explain it. For me personally, it’s about the tone of the relationship. It’s about the level of intimacy. It’s about the depth of passion and commitment. It’s about the rush and pushing of thresholds of a power exchange. It’s about this and sooooo much more.

It seems really a silly question to begin with. Lol. I guess it’s not for everyone so maybe it’s hard to understand, but it sure is for me.


Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but itโ€™s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

8 thoughts on “Why do I like control?”

      1. I’d love to fulfill that fantasy for you, thereby fulfilling mine of being whored out and used…by anyone you desire & by as many as you desire at the same time.

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      2. I’m sure you won’t be surprised to learn this fantasy has been requested of me a handful of times already. I suppose if and when it happens it will be either organically or methodically planned. But right now I have no plans of making this a reality. I’m sorry. ๐Ÿ’‹

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      3. I am very lucky. I know I am. I hope you find yourself in the same place in due time. A man would be very lucky to have a dominant partner like yourself, at least I know I would.

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