Brad increased the girth of his penis substantially when he was gone by suspending himself from a tree in the woods by it. This also led to anal bleeding; because he probably broke a few blood vessels in the act. I know gradual weight increase over time does increase length up to 1.5″ from what I’ve seen but I never knew girth could be increased. I would say I find it all rather silly. In this case Brad did absolutely not need an increase in size nor do I think that was his original aim but I get it. Sometimes you just want to improve your nethers. Same reason I’d love a mommy makeover.
I see and read about all these D/s relationships and the protocols they have in place and while I know I am not one for protocols it still makes me yearn for it a bit. I can absolutely see protocols being beneficial in slave territory where you are in effect making all the decisions. Protocols are an easier way to navigate some actions by rote without always having to speak them. In a submissive position I can see them helping the sub more easily step into subspace.
I’m just so much of a go with the flow person and protocols seem boring to me. I for one absolutely can not remember them to maintain any semblance of submissive accountability. My brain doesn’t function that way. When I’m in sub mode I can’t formulate words or even thoughts. They have to be forced out of me.
I was thinking with Brad and I switching so much and so spontaneously who would wear the collar? And I decided neither of us would. It doesn’t make sense to me. As far as I see it….. how I envisioned it long before I met him is that we are both king and Queen in this world of sex and deviancy. Now if we ever have submissives/slaves then protocols will absolutely be implemented and expectations enforced.
But that’s also not to say Brad won’t be under my strict guidance once we get him caged. But that’s purposeful and will be modified as needed as we go. It may or may not turn into a protocol.
Mmmmmmmmm. I just love BDSM sooooo much. Too much maybe…… definitely a rabbit hole. But one that adds so much texture and beauty to my life that honestly I just don’t see going back. I don’t see it now at least, but who’s to say. Strange things happen every day.