I’ve known some strong ass women in my life; my mother, aunt, grandmother, (me….lol). So many more. Tough as fucking nails. Smart, dynamic, powerhouses of force and beauty.
Yet when it came to the men we’ve loved we have broken apart. We fell. Crumbled to a million pieces. Scattered on the floor like beautiful china; seemingly irreparable. And I wondered why? Where these men worth all this? I can’t say. I won’t say. It’s not for me to judge people’s hearts, not even my own. Lol
But the system here seems to be that you marry and are chaste. And most women carry this out and men….a lot of men….falter. Women falter too; except most probably conceal it better. Women are propositioned and have many multiple of opportunities more; statistically. Yet somehow a lot keep it zipped.
So…..maybe….maybe…it’s worth considering that the conventional system in play isn’t meant to really be.
Maybe we stop blaming hormones and instincts and genes and blame the fucking system.
Maybe we take a good hard look at that!!
I’m not blaming religion, lack of ingenuity, keeping the status quo, familial/societal pressure. Those are all valid but please…..
I blame us….the people doing it, keeping this asinine system going.
That’s all I have to say.
Yes, I know…..
It works for a few lucky people. Count your fucking blessings. You are few and far between. Even if it isn’t infidelity. It’s a bucket of misery with a side of stagnation….for most….or so it seems.
I vote for a new system. I’ll start the ballot measure. Anyone second me?
Heck….I’d even maybe go for this one. I mean it’s worth considering. Lol
I don’t know. Let’s just crash the box!!!
Look….it’s fine. I’m making my own thing happen over here anyway. You all figure it out for yourselves. 🤪🤪❤️💋