Mental Health & D/s

Inspired by CuriousClitty*

Obviously mental health is important. I am not taking light of the fact that having a healthy sense of self esteem and self determination are vital to one’s overall well being. This lifestyle is funny in that it can very quickly lift you up or push you way down.

Maybe that’s where you were meant to go anyway; maybe this was just a catalyst. I can’t say. Interestingly, Oregon tried to pass a law in 1992 to teach children in school that BDSM is dangerous and I agree that it can be. Asphyxiation, extreme sadism, fluid exchange with strangers: examples of things that can skirt the line.

But I find that if you let it D/s can propel you into a rawness that opens your eyes to depths of yourself you never knew existed. Things maybe we don’t particularly want to or enjoy seeing and parts of us we never knew, strengths we never even felt a whiff of prior to. With that can also come an acceptance of parts of us that society pushed aside out of lack of understanding or in mockery. A part of ourselves we locked away. I’m just saying that sometimes when you start shoving things in that skeleton closet good things get thrown in too; worth taking a peek. Lol

But come on now….people in ALL realms of life can be bonkers. That this lifestyle does attract fringe people with nefarious intentions and some negativity gets exchanged….well….true….but show me where that does not happen?

I can’t account for other people’s crazy. I can only account for my own….and I like my crazy just the way it is; with ample loads of of D/s.

More please!!

*Can’t wait to hear about your self discoveries. 💋

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

4 thoughts on “Mental Health & D/s”

  1. Lol. I’m glad I inspired this, its a good read. I can say that so far D/s has lifted me up. It really has had some very interesting therapeutic moments for me. Being play only with Mr D I do feel very grateful for the time he spends talking me through the shit my mind comes up with. Mostly it’s the vulnerability that makes my mind want to delve into all of these things that it has so far. It’s certainly helping me and I feel blessed by it all so far.

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    1. That vulnerability is sooo very raw and powerful and takes you places you never knew existed. It is truly glorious. Isn’t it?

      Thank you sharing my blog. I truly appreciate it. That made my night. ❤️💋


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