Work vs Pleasure


He asked me how I was going to separate them

He wanted to know details

Was there to be lingerie?

Was there to be pegging?

On and on

I understood

The dance*

And so.

Here it is

There is a method to the madness

There are rules


I didn’t invent the system

But why break the wheel

Until something better comes along

I just have rules for myself

How will I?

I mean will I really?


First by not letting up on my hard rules for anyone and not wearing anything less than my Domme attire. Not even lingerie. Which I would not do for anyone outside of love (for reasons previously discussed) and because it is not part of the power structure play.

I am an open book…..almost quite literally. I mean if someone can’t decipher me by now it’s only because they haven’t been reading my blog. Lol

Anyone else can pay. They’ll be getting close enough to the real thing to make it well worthwhile. Te he he


Which once in a blue moon I need intervention with (my own rules)

Even if it has to be divine

Thank God for that…literally I “thank God for that”

But anyway

Point is…


*He’s gone. Poof! Just like that. This one wasn’t it. It’s not my fault about the hard limits for love too. Hey!! A girls got to have rules for herself. Lol


It will be easy really. Living out someone else’s fantasy is FUN. So much fun, but it isn’t reality. Not my reality at least. It’s a job. That’s not hard to understand. Is it?

Everyone has hard limits for a reason.

Except maybe for just one person. For just one person (at least in my world) maybe you have close to or possible absolutely none. Lol. It can be reciprocal. It’s an attitude. It can’t be described. It has to be felt.

I know sub-space well. Do you? I will play with anyone. Playing is fun. I love experiences. I love pushing boundaries. Exploration. Fulfillment. Doesn’t everyone?

Let’s all just respect each other and treat each other with kindness and dare I say “adoration”. Dare I even say it? Lol

Why not? 👅😝👅

Meanwhile. I know my worth. I know my value to myself, to the world. Maybe you don’t, maybe you do too. Either is fine. We all gotta do our own dance.

Right now I’m just “Dancing with Myself” (thanks Billy)

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

4 thoughts on “Work vs Pleasure”

    1. I am truly and deeply honored. Honestly. Made my day. The same overwhelming feeling that i have found my community awakened and j felt such a moment of bliss.

      But I still feel very new in this space and please please forgive me if I can not follow through with the quotes. I loved reading what you wrote. Isn’t that the truth. We just live it and lose it and relearn it over and over. My grandfather used to say “we stumble over the exact same rock in life, over and over; only we don’t recognize it because it’s always painted a different color”

      I’m so happy we got connected in this wild wide world.

      Thanks again. I thought I could do it and if I ever have the headapace for it I will do it. If that’s ok.

      Cheers to the spirit of our inner world’s.

      *or maybe even a different design.


      1. That’s fine hon. You don’t need to do it all. And omg I love love love that quotes of your grandfather’s. It’s just reminded me of two things from my past and given me some inspiration for my R blog. Thank you. And inrrally understand about being new around here. I’ve only been blogging a few months myself. And I love this community feeling we have around here. Take care and keep writing I really enjoy reading your stuff. xx CC 😊

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