Soooo I went and got a wee bit drunk last weekend. I love getting drunk, except my liver just can’t handle alcohol anymore, unfortunately. So then I rarely go out; because watching other people drink is like being on a medically necessary fast at an all you can eat buffet. It can feel like torture.
Once in a while though I still indulge. This day I really let loose at the local bar. Karaoke, total obnoxious Tom-assery and slutty drunken mayhem. Alcohol=slutty behavior. I get so touchy feely when I drink which makes zero sense since I can’t orgasm to save my life when I drink alcohol.
I had tried to put that night into the “let’s not think about it” file, but then today got messaged by a man I had met there. Literally my neighbor, like one block away. Married and he and his wife have been looking for a playmate. Ring, ring, ring.
Honestly I only vaguely remember talking to him and I remember (maybe incorrectly) that his wife was a little frosty towards me. But I appreciate that I have fellow deviants a stone throws away and both were very attractive people to boot.
Who knows where this will go, if anywhere. I was contemplating throwing a party for all the deviants I’ve met in virtual reality and the few I’ve met IRL. I haven’t thrown an adult only party in so long. The thought sounds thrilling and mortifying at the same time. Lol
I swung open Pandora’s box and so much yummy goodness has come out wanting to play. I’m filled with genuine excitement at the possibilities of bold and sensual adventures. I responded to him immediately and have been corresponding happily because he approached me with honesty; completely upfront about what his ideas were and where they want to go (not necessarily with me but throwing it out there).
Honesty goes a very long way with me. It will open the door much faster than any slick talk or undisclosed intentions generally will…..but we’ll see. I kind of want to slow my role a bit. Really savor this journey and not make too many rookie mistakes.
But a threesome is on my bucket list. 👅
Sometimes I wonder what percentage of alcohol sales can be linked to sex which would not have happened without it. I can definitely account for some of that. All kinds of not great things can and have been induced with alcohol. Which is why I am all in on pot now. You still have to know your limits and that stuff they legally sell now is sooo fucking STRONG, but complete sobriety just isn’t for me. Not now at least.
Plus pot is good for you…(depending on form) and regardless it does not damage your liver. Yippee-Kay-Yay!!!