I’ve been having this conversation with several men and we always reach the same conclusion. There is way too much judgement in the world and for no good reason.
I happen to think it’s based in fear and repression. Oh no!! The unknown. What will happen? What will happen if we let men be men in WHATEVER expression that is…so long as it isn’t causing (unwanted) harm to others. Right? And I am never talking about people’s stupid sensibilities. Please! We are born naked people. Clothing is a societal construct anyway and every baby cries.
What would happen if we let men cry? What would the world come to if we let them dress and express emotion however they feel like. Gasp, gasp. What would happen if we allow them to express enjoyment for the male figure as much as women are allowed and encouraged to do so? The horror!! Ugghhh
I entered the deviant community hoping there would be a bit more inclusivity and instead I find repression, judgement and major hierarchies. I’m all for serious play and grunt work and even a knowledge based pecking order, but outright discrimination is completely unacceptable.
I’m going to keep going with it because it makes me happy to meet other people that are true to their deviant natures. I just wish they would all recognize that we all need to leave the door open for each other….even those we may not understand or agree with. I really don’t understand where the difficulty of this lies. I think sissies, transgender, gender fluid, heteroflexible, homoflexible, all of it….is superb. It’s fucking fantastic. Find your flag and wave it high!!
I’ll wave it with you. We all have a place in this world. Fuck they!!!