I’m Home!!

A new friend from Fetlife and I were discussing FLR’s and he forwarded this article* to me and when I read it everything finally made sense.

I made sense to me. I am by this articles account an Extreme FLR version. Who knew? I didn’t. I mean yes now I do. Now I get it. Now it all makes perfect sense.

I’ve had this eerie calmness and serenity today. It’s one thing to accept yourself and quite another to deeply understand yourself and then to have both. Well…that’s just a very great place to be. Truly a blessing. What took me so long? Lol

* http://www.aboutflr.com/What-Is-FLR.html


Update 4/23/18

Okay but the funniest part of this that I didn’t want to reveal at the time was that when I read through the degrees of FLR I wanted it to keep going, I identified so much to the extreme but in my head I was like…..what’s beyond that? Isn’t there more? Because maybe I’m that too I thought. Lol.

Now I understand that is M/s. I can’t say if I’ll like it. But I have a very strong feeling it is exactly what I’ve always wanted. Te he he

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

2 thoughts on “I’m Home!!”

  1. I took the picture test and it looks as if I’d be happy in this type of relationship, so long as it was a loving one, and not one in which my wife were a narcissist. Been there, done that, got the divorce paperwork to prove it. that is not the case at the moment. My wife is very submissive and it works for us. I guess I am a true switch; I could be happy in either role, though I usually fantasize about being the submissive one.

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    1. I really wanted to take my time to respond to your comment because you brought up a VERY important part of this.

      I myself am a very loving and docile Domme. I enjoy making my sub (significant other) happy. It is actually a very deep need for me to satisfy my loved one completely in all realms….BUT….I come first. My needs come first. Once those are satisfied I bend any way I have to to make my sub happy. That is my nature…because that is me.

      This is one of those funny conundrums in life because who is really the Master? The need to serve and be served is mutual. The obsession is real on both sides. So really. It’s just a different way to play the game. One that works for both parties.

      I need to find someone that can go to my levels of passion and devotion because I give all I am and I need that level of love in return. I just need it formatted in a very specific way and with these games involved. That’s me! Since I currently don’t have a playmate I can’t tell you his needs. When I get there we will navigate those to be within the game as well.

      Does that makes sense? This lifestyle necessitates a level of communication that is not commonly understood in “vanilla” relationships because it navigates far beneath the surface. It is a level of vulnerability that a lot of people may not understand or want to get to because it involves knowing and exposing your deepest needs and greatest fears.

      It may not be for everyone…but it is definitely for me….and Thank God I found it! Or did it find me? Lol.

      You can have whatever relationship you want with your wife. If she is game. The website link I provided seems to have good information for knowing how to start on both your sides. Maybe talk about it together. Let her look at it. She may surprise you. You may be able to get those fantasies realized and both be completely satisfied. It’s worth a shot.

      And I’m sorry about your ex. I have one of those too. I’m actually trying to help him navigate his way to understanding himself and anyway…trying for forgiveness there. We are all just stupid humans; after all.

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