Bareback Sex

God I LOVE bareback sex. I do. It’s just better. I hate that STD’s exist, but….unfortunately… they do.

For some reason I’ve had this on my mind a lot lately. I guess it’s the Red Room. The manual I’ve made for it. It’s rather vanilla right now. It is a work in progress, but I am adding some safe sex tips and I supply 3 condoms per stay.

I wonder how far I can take it. Maybe I should have separate manuals. One for vanilla to not scare them too much and one for more daring, willing to experiment kinksters. I mean it can all be found online anyway. So really. Lol.

Hmmmmm. Don’t know.

I’d love for guests to upload to twitter pictures of themselves using the room #wlloveshack* but we live in such a sexually suppressed world. I don’t get it. I really don’t. I could go off on a huge tantrum right now…..

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Ok. Here goes!!!

So. It’s how I feel about digestion too. How your digestion works or doesn’t work can literally be killing you. Yet we don’t talk about it. I ask my kids “how’s your poop?” They’ve stopped looking at me weird, because they know me and what I do for a living and they are starting to understand the importance; somewhat at least.

Same goes with sex. Sex is a big part of who we are…how we identify.

How we navigate within the realm of our own deep sexual needs and desires based on our psyche and unconscious impulses. This is important!! It’s important for our overall health to understand this part of ourselves and accept it and heaven forbid I know… “relish it!”

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Unconscious ….yes…. these things were probably cemented long before we gained a real understanding of what sex even was. So to try to attach logic to something that we don’t have full comprehension (sometimes) of why we are drawn in the first place seems asinine.

I mean sure. If you want to put in the hard work of finding out why you are who you are…..great! If you want to try and change that. Ok. Fine. If you aren’t harming anyone that seems stupid to me but whatever. Who am I to judge? Another option…..option A I think is that you can just accept it and find a place of comfort in that. Find your tribe!!

Whatever you’re into there are others into it too.

Age and consent people and SAFETY FIRST!!! Right? Or am I wrong?

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*maybe I should be careful for what I ask for. lol. Don’t know. So far my house has been treated with the utmost respect. The room has been used. I just find it so funny. It all gets put back together exactly how it was. To create the illusion that it hasn’t been used. Don’t get me wrong. I love it. Less work for me. Win/win.

Except I hope….I just wish…we could all just own the fact that sex is fun and feels good and it’s good for you and that these simple statements could be commonplace knowledge and that within that there could be full acceptance of everything sex can encompass. Laughable. I know. It is not that kind of world. Yes, yes……hellishly judgmental place that it can be.

Ugghhhhhh. Fuck it!!!

I’m flying my flag. I just wish everyone could fly their own flag proud and strong & plus….who doesn’t love parades?

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Answer me one thing?

How many lives have you got? In which one can we can love and accept ourselves completely; if not THIS ONE?

I don’t need anyone’s permission to be me. And I definitely don’t need anyone’s permission to love that person.

Have I missed something somewhere?

Author: porngirl3

I have always enjoyed reading and writing. Maybe because I have always been on the quiet and reclusive side; which most people may not guess at first glance or if seeing me in a social setting, especially around people I am comfortable with but it’s also not something I have an issue with. I need solitude to recharge. Writing gives me the peace and time to renew myself...here that is offered to you for your enjoyment and pleasure as well. I hope. Lol

3 thoughts on “Bareback Sex”

  1. Bareback is all I’ve ever known. Committed relationships, long term, and sexual experimentation within that relationship…but that has been my experience, not others. I’m also an XXY male so I’m sterile and that helps as well.
    “Age and consent people and SAFETY FIRST!!! ” – You are SO RIGHT!
    I love how much sense you make in your blog…so much common sense. Thank you for being that voice, the one that is inside our heads, saying the very same thing, but we’ve been taught to put it aside all for the cause of civility. That suppression is what makes us so uncivil in the first place.

    I just want to be me. If that means I like putting things in my butt and I get off on that, who gives a flying fuck, so long as I’m not hurting anyone in the process…including me. Why should it matter to anyone else? Sorry, that is my rant.

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