There is a couple reserving their honeymoon in my Airbnb Red Room. I’m so excited!!
So I read a study that said that the less sexual partners the happier you are in your marriage (sexually). Maybe. Probably. For vanilla people that’s true…I’m sure.*
So…maybe I should have accepted early on in my life (pre-marriage would have been ideal) that sexually that was not my trajectory…maybe my clues should have been the high desire for pegging, public sex and the ultra high sex drive.
I mean…I read erotica books before I even had my first sex boyfriend. I had my first taste of soft porn at 11. Maybe by today’s standards that’s tame when you account for the internet. Lol.
So are we raising sexual deviants? No idea. I would guess not; just a lot more aware I hope and open about sexuality maybe. And hey…if they are consenting adults and genuinely happy who gives a $\%+]@ anyway. Always come back to that. It bears repeating.
So all that said I hope this couple has an awesome time here. I’m so honored and excited and it gives me warm fuzzies. It’s just so cute!!!! I would have loved that kind of honeymoon! It’s only one night before they go away for the real honeymoon. So yea. So perfect!
*definitely not the case in my marriage. I went in eyes wide open. I communicated. I thought I knew what I signed up for. He changed all the rules and left me to handle everything on my own. From the moment the paper was signed it was like he owned me and had to do nothing. It was a dark pit of a place to live. It had its good moments. Sexually though it was sheer hell from the word go and that wasn’t what I signed up for…and yet I’m still willing to get married again. It’s the romantic in me I think. It’s the eternal optimist. It’s that I believe what I’ve wanted my whole life is truly out there for me and now maybe more than ever.
Of course as I’ve said many times marriage does not predicate love and if I have to choose obviously its love and great sex over marriage. Maybe I don’t have to choose is what I’m learning. I can have it all. It’s a possibility at least is all I’m saying…a lovely possibility.