In regards to flirting being a micro-aggression when one is in a committed relationship. Seriously?
Okay we are way too PC in this society sometimes. Personally for me it goes like this:
I want to be your one and only and you to be mine but I will have intimate relationships with other men and women. They are called friendships. They are called shared life experiences; sometimes you have no choice in the matter.
I will not be having sex with these people unless that is our lifestyle and you are present to watch and participate and approve. I guard your heart as my own and you have to trust me as I trust you and as I guard your heart too. That’s what my love is about. Let me be free; I will fly back to you every time and I expect the same in return.
If you don’t have this then you don’t have real love; you have a person in captivity.
Now if said person wants to give you their complete emotional fidelity…hey more power to them. It’s not the way I want to live my life but who says there is only one right way? So please get your judgement and micro-aggression analytics away from my love life.