I was once asked how many times in a row I’ve had sex, which I found a very interesting question. Technically the number is 4; except we went to sleep and woke up to have more sex so I like to think it was 5 times. 5 times within much less than 24 hours with the same man…my boyfriend at the time.
The reaction I got when I answered the question was even more interesting. He said something like “Yea, I can believe it”. It still makes me laugh; for starters because why would I lie and then just the way he said it sounded like the hugest compliment. But then… years later I found myself in a sexless marriage.
I remember a few years into my marriage when I found out the lead singer of Blink 182 had taken a vow of chastity. I actually wrote him a letter. I told him something very similar to what I would like to say to Selena Gomez who along with Justin Bieber have taken a similar vow.
Adore you but please stop with the nonsense. You two are gorgeous specimens of human beings and you obviously outside of the drama have mad love for each other. The fact that you need a chaperone is even more hysterical… all that passion wasted.
I would get it if you were both younger and virgins and saving yourself for marriage. This is not that. You’ve already had each other. Life and passion is not promised to anyone. You may never come this way again. Why deprive yourself of ecstasy? For what end goal? Statistically speaking your relationship will not last anyway. Sorry!
Meanwhile though, you could be indulging in experiences that no one can take from you as opposed to having to endure the torture of abstaining. I hope it’s all a gimmick and that you truly are having sex, because OMG what a waste if not. Now I’m not saying go have babies; although they would probably look just like real cherubs. I’m saying don’t deprive yourself of an experience you truly desire that despite societal constraints is natural and normal and beautiful and powerful. Girl….go get some.
This is of course just my feeble opinion…but ugghhh. I would be fucking that boy every moment I absolutely could, where I in her shoes (at her age, definitely not now).
So yea…5 times. No one can take that from me. No regrets!! Not a one.